Is there any other reason to live?
It took me a few decades to explain what I actually do. I’ve always had some cover story for the truth I couldn’t explain.
Now the truth feels simple. The things I write, teach, create, and lead may seem diverse, yet they share one throughline. Underneath, it’s always about becoming more human—and then living the best version of your humanness.
A 360° map of your inner architecture—your data from five wisdom systems—translated into plain language, built to become a reference you'll use for the rest of your life.
It's not coaching. It's not therapy.
Working 1:1 with me isn't really work, it's just stepping into a quiet place to catch your breath and gain perspective.
"I was going through a season of excruciating loss. Rachel's compassion and empathy for me and the circumstances I was facing was such a balm for my soul..."
A practice of parts work and the path of self-leadership. Understand your inner voices, recognize your patterns, and move from self-criticism to self-compassion.
Just like in college.
If you've got a question, need help with a tool or resource, or just need some banter.
Helping You Access Deep Guidance
Most men I work with are solid on paper—competent, responsible, getting shit done. And privately, they're lonely. Confused about intimacy. Exhausted by performing a version of masculinity that feels wrong.
An invitation to fully inhabit the unusual circumstances of modern life—rapid technological change, political and social instability, and the aching hunger for real intimacy and connection.