Helping You Access Deep Guidance
Most men I work with are solid on paper—competent, responsible, getting shit done. And privately, they're lonely. Confused about intimacy. Exhausted by performing a version of masculinity that feels wrong.
I work with men who want depth, partnership, and a life that actually reflects who they are—not who they've been told they had to be.
Our social structure has been dramatically shifting for decades, but very little attention has been given to the lived experience of men navigating an unacknowledged scene change.
Men are confused, lonely, and often feel accused of causing problems they can't understand. The Surgeon General has declared loneliness an emergency—the real life impact rivals smoking 15 cigarettes a day in actual health outcomes.
Looking for a map, many end up in online spaces that feed grievance and contempt.
Most men just want to understand their world and how to relate to women safely and confidently.
I was raised as the little colleague of a man who was larger than life and expected me to keep up.
I was trained into misogyny early. I've been both perpetrator and victim in my own world. I've had to untangle my inner life—where power, fear, sexuality, and identity got knotted together.
Years of careful work have given me an eye for the structural realities that advantage men—and the profound confusion and rage that the same system is shifting and disintegrating around you.
I'm unburdened by political correctness or false measures of privilege. I can see the you beneath the social label. I'm okay with saying things that aren't allowed to be said. I'm not interested in punishing you for any of your experiences. I'm interested in helping you navigate it with clarity, agency, and integrity.
I'm comfortable with sexuality. I've integrated my own. I can hold conversations about sex, desire, power, and shadow without fetishizing or voyeurism. I hold space without a personal agenda.
Rachel has an uncanny knack of bringing people out of their rut in life, challenging them (in a very natural, non-confrontational way) to question the status quo and seek a different and more meaningful pathway.
She is a tour de force: charismatic, compassionate, thoughtful, generous. I am a conservative person by nature who is sceptical and cynical. When I first met Rachel and spoke with her, I was suddenly aware of a different dimension to life.
Our conversations have changed quite a lot but what comes to mind is a quality to my life. My appreciation of music, literature, friendships, relationships became more precious and meaningful.
Personal identity and the story you've been telling yourself about yourself
Shame, reconciliation, and the parts of you you've kept hidden
The realities of culture and economics. How they shape your experience as a man
Relationships with women: practical understanding of the emotional and cultural terrain
Building a life for your fully alive self
This is not therapy and it does not replace professional care.
This is not a place to hate on women or re-litigate culture wars.
Sexual content is handled with maturity, and relevance.
Confidentiality is expected and respected, within legal and safety limits.
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We use your Being Blueprint as a practical map of your inner wiring—your tendencies, strengths, challenges, patterns, and timing.
It pulls your data across five wisdom systems into one organized reference, and I teach you how to use it as a tool in your growth.
I was on the cusp of a very transitional period in my life when I was introduced to Rachel and her Being Blueprint.
I was a bit skeptical at first but also very curious. But when element after element started landing dead on with observations, as well as with both past and newly dawning thoughts about myself and my situation - it felt like the stars did indeed tell a story.
I was amazed and seriously excited about the new insights and language that I gained through the process. It also gave me a more confident and grounded feeling to head into the transitions.
You're confident and competent in general, but intimacy feels elusive
You want partnership, but you keep experiencing the same dead end patterns
You carry anger or numbness and you're tired of it running your life
You want desire without shame, and power without cruelty
You're doing "fine," but you feel privately lost
You're starting over after a loss—relationship, job, identity—and you want steady guidance